By Vanessa Valenzuela, Mostly Sports Music Guru: @MostlyIntern

Whether you’ve been in a relationship for a while or you’re just Tindering the night away, as much as you all believe if you’re ready she’s ready THAT IS NOT TRUE!!!! You’ve got to get her in the mood and make her feel comfortable if you really want to get the V on V-Day! Momentum building via music can be a little tough – especially when you’re not sure what a girl is into (yet), but FEAR NOT! Mostly Intern has got your back!

Feel free to mix and match the songs in each round and between each playlist but heed my words “WOMEN. ARE. OVENS.” You can’t start the night off with Pony by Genuine, you have to work your way there!

The Relationship Playlist

Round 1

Lovin’ You – Minnie Riperton

I Wanna Be Your Man – Zapp & Roger

Sure Thing – Miguel

Round 2

Tonight – John Legend

Bed – J. Holiday

Don’t Let Go – En Vogue

Round 3

Hey Daddy – Usher

Motivation – Kelly Rowland

Or Nah – Weeknd

The Tinder Playlist

Round 1

Computer Love – Zapp & Roger

How Many Drinks? – Miguel

Moonlight Chemistry – Jeff Bernat

Round 2

Wicked Games – The Weeknd

Planes – Jeremih ft. J Cole

Say It – Sevyn

Body Party – TC/Ciara

Round 3

Strip – Chris Brown

Sex Room – Trey Songz

Wet the Bed – Chris Brown

Once you’ve reached the point in the conversation where you want to start heating things up don’t start with that bullshit massage move and start digging under her shirt with that “your bra is in the way nonsense” — it’s lame and played out, not to mention borderline creepy. BE ORIGINAL!

Instead of going straight under the shirt surprise her and keep your hands outside the shirt, maybe play with her hair, kiss her neck, nibble on her ear – all while keeping your hands OUTSIDE the shirt. Granted anyone who decides to hang out with a Tinder date on Valentine’s day should have a “we both know what we’re doing here” mentality, but that doesn’t mean you can’t put a lil effort in to dress up the story! And trust me teasing is DEFINITELY the way to go with any female. Make the night more enjoyable that way you BOTH “cum” out with great 2k16 Valentine’s Day stories.